Charlton: Patrick Michael DeMars, 37, passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on Thursday, Jan. 9th, in the UMass Medical Center, University Campus, Worcester.

He leaves his parents, Anson J. and Eileen H. (Shay) DeMars of Charlton; his three sisters, Shauna Murphy and her husband Brian of Sturbridge, Raimee DeMars and her fiancé Michael Kruzewski of East Brookfield, Kelsey Foskett and her husband Jason of Charlton, his two bonus sisters Mandy Kuchnicki and Francheska Gracia, his seven nieces and nephews, Darian Kenneway, Malorie Kenneway, James LaBarge, Jacob Kenneway, Jaidyn Brosnihan, Cody Foskett and Leo Kruzewski. His JoJo, Winnie and many aunts, uncles, cousins, extended family and friends.  He was born in Worcester on January 28, 1987.

Patrick enjoyed spending time with family more than anything. Patrick also enjoyed going to day program, meeting new people, puzzles, singing and dancing, music and parties. Pat had an undeniable love for all animals and his pets, especially his best friend Jacoby who always knew when Pat needed extra hugs. Patrick loved drawing circles for hours and making everyone sign his papers. Pat could eat snacks for days, finding the stranger in the room to obtain the goods. There is not much Patrick did not enjoy in life.

Patrick will be remembered for his beautiful smile. He had an innate ability to light up any room he entered with his infectious smile and contagious energy. His presence was magnetic-whether in the company of family, friends, or even strangers, his positivity and warmth uplifted those around him in ways words could never fully express. His laugh and the sparkle in his eyes were part of the remarkable spirit he shared with everyone he met.

Despite the physical obstacles life placed before him, Patrick refused to be defined by them. He pushed through every setback with a relentless will, conquering whatever challenges were placed in his path. His journey was not always easy, but his strength, resilience, and refusal to give up were nothing short of extraordinary. He lived not just a full life, but a beautiful one- embracing every opportunity with joy, and always proving everyone wrong who doubted him. A true Ironman, our Ironman.

Though we mourn the loss of our beloved Patrick, we find solace in the incredible legacy he leaves behind. A legacy of resilience, strength, joy and love. Patrick proved that NO challenge could ever dim his light, we will carry his memory and smile with us always. Rest in the sweetest peace, Pat. You will forever be in our hearts.

The family would like to thank the staff at Harrington Hospital, A special thanks to Dr. Constantinou, UMass University Lake Ave Worcester, Whittier Rehab and Holden Rehab for their compassionate care. We would also like to thank Pat's visiting nurse Carol for her loving care, compassion and dedication to our precious Pat Brat as well as Patrick's very special Auntie Jayne.

Calling hours for Patrick will be held on Wednesday, Jan. 15th, from 5:00 to 7:00pm, in the Da,niel T. Morrill Funeral Home, 130 Hamilton St. Southbridge. A funeral service for Patrick will be held in the funeral home on Thursday, Jan. 16th, at 11:00am. Burial following in Northside Cemetery, Charlton.  A Celebration of Life will follow the burial.

In lieu of flowers donations may be made to NORD, National Organization for Rare Disorders, at rarediseases.org an organization which provides information on Coffin-Lowry syndrome and has assistance funds available for families.